- They show men getting so emotional for women and desiring them all the time on tv, popular culture etc. Almost every song celebrates man's love for women, every serial and movie depicts men falling in love with and craving women, laying their hearts out before them, embracing them, crying before them........ as if this is a universal, majority male feature........
whereas the truth is that very few men really care for it --- especially the emotional part. Very few men want to bond with women...... they all marry of course and claim to be grossly interested in dating women, however, that is because they have to. Just because they are married doesn't mean that they want to be with women. And neither just because they talk all the time about girls. That is again something they have to do. That is what the intense race for manhood and the politics of social manhood makes them do.
This is what a volunteer of YAAR once so aptly said, "I was born a completely normal male, but the society artificially made the essence of me into an 'abnormality' to suit its designs....... so that I have to completely destroy or hide myself in order to survive.
The rest of the men do it to the extent that they carry this male essence."
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